I’ve been a biraquenista (a birthing doula) for more than 20 years, so I know a thing or two about birthing, delivering, and being a doula and birthing coach. I have one question for you.
The birthing process is an incredibly physically painful and emotionally challenging thing for both the mother and baby. I’m not talking about the horrible pain that can be associated with the birthing process, but the emotional pain that you can’t get rid of by giving your baby painkillers. The emotional pain that you can’t get rid of by breastfeeding.
We all know the physical pain that is associated with giving birth. The emotional pain that you cant get rid of by doing the “right” thing, so let’s talk about the “right” thing that you can do. Birthing a healthy baby is a great thing to do. That said, I would like to see the birthing process become more about the emotional pain, not the physical pain.
Well, I just want to say that I feel that we are all in this together and that the birthing process is such a vital part of our lives. It’s such a natural process that it’s almost a “thank you for giving birth” thing. The first few months of life when you are learning how to bond with your baby and you want to be there for them, it’s a pretty big deal.
The birthing process is a complicated one, and there are plenty of benefits to bonding and mothering that don’t involve pain. But I would like to see the birthing process become more emotional than physical. This would be a healthier process for our society, not just for the birthing mother.
My friend and I recently hosted a birthing party for a friend who was having a baby girl. She was having a great time. But, being a mom of a newborn, I was feeling very emotional. I remember one of the first things she told me after the party was, “You know, I’m crying. I feel a lot of emotions.” I was pretty shocked to hear that.
I think she meant that she was crying because she was all alone and worried about what to do when she had her baby. Or maybe she was worried that she didn’t have much time to get ready for the baby’s arrival because she was so emotional. Either way, it was a great time for her.
The time she spent with her mother was also a great time for her, but to be honest, it was not as bad as the first time she spent with her mother. She spent a lot of time feeling good about herself. I think that was a good thing.
The reason why I called this post “birite catering” is because the title seems to be a bit of a misnomer. The true meaning of birite is “birthday cakes”. If you have a birthday cake, it is a little cake made with sweetened fruit and other ingredients you think are nice. It is traditionally made for a special occasion such as a birthday, but also can be made just for yourself.